After three days of pulling my hair, being lost in my incessant chatter and wondering if I had left my Peace back in England, I look over to Hiranya, my norwegian friend, and told her: "You know, if at 35 I am having exactly the same relationship issues and facing the same old freaking stories in my head that I had when I was 25, perhaps the main problem is within me. Maybe it is not so much about picking the right guy, but about becoming the right woman."Read More
It´s funny how I used to think that being aligned with a path of Enlightenment would get rid of challenges, wrong turns, mistakes, or choosing poorly. Cosmic joke on me.Read More
Friendship is a precious thing. So precious, so selfless, so incredibly pure. As a resting dragon, it may be dormant for years, but then, whenever there's a call from a far away kingdom, the dragon wakes up, puts himself together and roars. That's sort of what happened today.Read More
but the I am girl part of me secretly desires that he is still waiting for me to open the red door of our house and come home after my explorations in the world.Read More
And in those moments you might want to pick up the phone and text him. Or go out and get smashed and be morally hangover the next morning. Or you might just want to shove your mouth with popcorn until you cannot breathe anymore.Read More
Yes, I thought my heart was breaking into one-million tiny pieces that reassembling back wouldn´t be possible even if 300 fairies were working on it for ten years. At least that´s how it felt the moment it happened. The sun will shine through, but you need to open up the curtains.Read More
Today I celebrate a one year anniversary with my boy. Today we went out to buy tuna for lunch, and we ended up cooking chicken soup.
This two things might not seem related, but they are.
Some things I´ve learned over the last year:Read More
But those generations broke a lot of concept tupper-wares so we could have an existence with less rigidity and more happiness. This is the real thing.Read More
See, all is well, always. It´s only us that pretend to know better. How arrogant. Life has no concerns for what we think of it. It really doesn´t. It will keep happening.Read More
We do not choose when our wildest dreams appear in our life. They simply do. Sometimes while you are sipping a cup of coffee in the morning and you receive an e-mail, sometimes when you are at your best friend´s wedding and you sit besides that friend that you never thought could turn your world upside down, but that night, just by looking at his right arm, he did.Read More
Love cannot coexist with fear, doubt, jealousy, feelings of non-acceptance or victim hood. It's either one, or the other.Pain doesn't come from love itself. It's impossible. Pain comes from our own resistance to hold on to what it's being shown to us.Read More
My commitment to spiritual freedom and unconditional love hit me in the face. When one commits to something, the Universe delivers with all its power for your to experience it. I started bumping into my own ideals, my own expectations, my own shoulds and shouldnts, my own demons. I started experiencing my worst traits projected in him, and also my highest qualities. A lot of the aspects that I thought were gone (and many more I didn´t even know existed), would come up in the mornings.Read More
We do this often. Wether we are conscious of a similar dialog in our heads or not. We often prefer to be right than to be at peace. We often want other people to change since we didn´t do anything wrong. So I am putting my foot down. And we hate the feeling of being wrong.Read More
Me, I am an eternal lover. I love love. Real love is within, but I also believe in real relationships. Relationships full of love, truth, humbleness and walking together in the wonderful path towards the return of Self. Holding hands in the calm sea and in the highest tides. Relationships made easy by our own determination to let go of what is complicated within us. At the end of the day, our relationships are a reflection of who and how we are inside, guiding us to the real love within.Read More